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Saturday, September 14, 2013

"Hey nice Job! NOT!


 I can relate to this. Some people just joke way to much and usually at other peoples expense. I can take jokes, I think many people can, but when jokes are constant and at other peoples expense it gets to be too much even if it's just a joke and then you get the "Ahh! it was just a joke! can't you take a joke?" It wouldn't be so bad if maybe there was some compliments like "Hey nice Job! or something positive instead of a unlined jab all the time.

Have you ever experienced that and then when you bring attention to it you're the bad guy or you're the one being sensitive?  Just saying. I like jokes and I can joke around. At home I'm actually the king of joking,  but please at least make it a balance and you will be appreciated more for who you are and people will take you more seriously and your friendships will sore.


I know many people out there probably feel and have experienced this kind of constant joking as well and really don't talk about it because you feel like it may come off weak, weird or sensitive, but then when someone talks about it like I am here it helps them relate and realize that they aren't alone.

A good healthy friendship is one where you can joke, but also have an adult conversation without being childishly slammed all the time.
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This video has some harsh language, but it's so true.  

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